A word first to my relatives and friends. Much of this site examines the beliefs of Jehovah’s Witnesses — pages that may hold little interest if you have never been one. If you are simply curious about ‘Uncle Rick’ and how I came to be where I am, the About Me pages tell that story in some depth. If you want to see photos of Aunt Suzanne, you can visit her website at suzannewhiting.com.
If you are one of Jehovah’s Witnesses, this site was built with you in mind — and I know something about what it may cost you to open it. You have been taught that a site like this is “apostate,” that reading it is disloyalty to Jehovah and His Organization, and that nothing in it could be worth the risk. I was taught the same, and I taught it to others. For thirty-five years I was a Witness: an elder for more than thirty of them, a pioneer, and for seven years a member of the headquarters staff at Brooklyn Bethel.
I make you two promises.
- Every Watchtower quotation on this site can be checked against the Society’s own publications — and I ask you to check them.
- Nothing here mocks you or the people you love. The argument is always with organizational claims, never with the character of adherents, who are in the main devout, moral, and well-motivated.
Below is a suggested path through this site: where to start, what order to read in, and where to go depending on where you find yourself. If you would rather first know who is making this case, my story is told in the About Me pages.
If you are a Christian of another tradition, the Protestant vs Catholic Church pages will explain why I am Catholic — and why, with respect, I do not share much of the Protestant and so-called ‘non-denominational’ theology.
And if you left the Witnesses and the Christian faith altogether, the Atheism vs Christianity pages will explain why I did not lose my Christian faith and why I believe you should not either.
I invite your engagement with me at every step. You may leave
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